Setting limits with children

The following are a few pointers on how to set limits for you kids

Don’t give unnecessary commands.
Give one command at a time.
Be realistic in your expectations and use age-appropriate commands.
Use “do” commands.
Make commands positive and polite.
Don’t use “stop” commands.
Give children ample opportunity to comply.
Give warnings and helpful reminders.
Don’t threaten children; use “when –then” commands.
Give children options or choices whenever possible.
Make commands short and to the point.
Support your partner’s commands.
Praise compliance or provide consequences for noncompliance.
Strike a balance between parent and child control


Adapted from the Incredible Years Parenting program
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